"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is your ideal girl inexperienced?

TheCWord

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Whenever I think about what longterm girlfriend quality means to me, I imagine the girl being as close to virginal as possible.

I am also a self-aware hypocrite. I've slept with around 30 women yet I think my ceiling for my ideal GF would be 5.

That said, I was recently banging a girl who I think had only been with ONE other guy before me... I would've thought it was PERFECT... FINALLY, the girl for ME!...

...but the sex was HORRIBLE.

I'm being dramatic. Sex is like pizza, even when it's bad it's still pretty good. But you know what I mean. It felt clumsy and I had to really concentrate in order to climax. She wouldn't swallow. I had to guide her every which way so it was like tossing a 100+lb paperweight around. Plus I think her lack of relationship experience overall made even fully clothed interactions feel less invigorating than I'd like them to be.

What's your philosophy?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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I think the best case would be somewhere in between. If she doesn't know anything, that can be a pain in the arse. Then again, you don't want her to be overly experienced - you don't want her to have had 100 different c0cks in her.
 

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Either completely virginal or experienced. Both for different reasons.. Waste of time to spend it on an in-between. You get neither of the best of both worlds. Inexperienced ones have full of insane ideas in their heads of how things "ought to be!!".
 

MtnMan

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i like girls with enough experience to know what she is doing, but its nice to have a chick that has a few things on her list that you can still cross off if you get adventurous with her.
I think having a chick that can make herself *** is KEY too. Chicks that masturbate are always better in bed, IMHO.
 

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This is a really good topic. I been with both kind of girls on the extreme. Most men would strive for the non experienced girl when it comes to a relationship. It does sound cliche but you do have to find the girl in the middle.

We get so spoiled with porn, we tend to think sex will look like that. I been with girls who never watched porn or watched very minimally, and they wouldn't know what to do or know any other positions other then missionary!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JoeMarron

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
If you are alpha you can make inexperienced women do what you want.
Exactly. They become your sex slave and you mold them into whatever image you want. My chick was very inexperienced and after a bit of work, if you could actually call it work, I've turned her into a sex fiend who does whatever I want.
 

foreverAFC

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being with an experienced woman who already knows exactly what you want and like can be so amazing
 
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