"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is your dream girl worth catching herpes?

AdAstra

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Hi forumits. This one is tough so...Is the girl of your dream worth possibility of catching herpes? This is the problem i have encountered so weighting options...opinions are welcome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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4north1side2 said:
My ex has herpes, I fukked her relentlessly raw all the time and never caught it. She said she could tell when an outbreak was near so we wouldn't fukk for a week or more. I was with her for an year and she had outbreaks.

Ultimately I ditched her because I looked at herpes like the drug game. A lot of drug dealers get fukked because they don't know when to get out of the game so I looked at herpes the same way.

If your just looking to fukk, not worth it but if your actually looking for an relationship and a future to build with this woman. The chance may be worth it. The first few times you fukk, you will be mind fukking yourself... constantly thinking you have it and fretting about it. It took me about 2 months to push the fear of catching it to the back of my mind.
Chances to get one with rubber and "knowing when outbreak starts" combined are really slim. And this CTD is what you can live with, minor pain of course. Hmm....
 

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In my opinion...no. Herpes is forever if you catch it, which means it will likely last much longer than she does
 
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They shed even if they do not have an outbreak.....best way to minimize risk is for her to be taking Valtrex or Zovirax at all time and for you to be using a rubber at all times. Remember I said minimizing the risk....Abe
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Personally, I would not take the risk because herpes won't go away, but she may. Remember that.

I'm not saying you can't get her or keep her and be happy with her. I'm not criticizing you at all. I'm just telling you the obvious reality of the situation. Your stock will go down with every other girl if you have herpes, and it would be delusional to think you'll be with this girl forever.

The alarms went off in my head when I read the words "dream girl."
Your idea of her is probably closer to infatuation than reality.
 

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no... not worth it. no such thing as dream girl, ur standard keeps changing / getting higher.
 

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If you catch herpes, your selection of girls will decrease dramatically once they see all those nasty bumps and pus filled boils all over your genital area. It will send them running for the hills.
 
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