"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is your dream girl worth catching herpes?

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Hi forumits. This one is tough so...Is the girl of your dream worth possibility of catching herpes? This is the problem i have encountered so weighting options...opinions are welcome.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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4north1side2 said:
My ex has herpes, I fukked her relentlessly raw all the time and never caught it. She said she could tell when an outbreak was near so we wouldn't fukk for a week or more. I was with her for an year and she had outbreaks.

Ultimately I ditched her because I looked at herpes like the drug game. A lot of drug dealers get fukked because they don't know when to get out of the game so I looked at herpes the same way.

If your just looking to fukk, not worth it but if your actually looking for an relationship and a future to build with this woman. The chance may be worth it. The first few times you fukk, you will be mind fukking yourself... constantly thinking you have it and fretting about it. It took me about 2 months to push the fear of catching it to the back of my mind.
Chances to get one with rubber and "knowing when outbreak starts" combined are really slim. And this CTD is what you can live with, minor pain of course. Hmm....
 

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In my opinion...no. Herpes is forever if you catch it, which means it will likely last much longer than she does
 
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They shed even if they do not have an outbreak.....best way to minimize risk is for her to be taking Valtrex or Zovirax at all time and for you to be using a rubber at all times. Remember I said minimizing the risk....Abe
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Personally, I would not take the risk because herpes won't go away, but she may. Remember that.

I'm not saying you can't get her or keep her and be happy with her. I'm not criticizing you at all. I'm just telling you the obvious reality of the situation. Your stock will go down with every other girl if you have herpes, and it would be delusional to think you'll be with this girl forever.

The alarms went off in my head when I read the words "dream girl."
Your idea of her is probably closer to infatuation than reality.
 

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no... not worth it. no such thing as dream girl, ur standard keeps changing / getting higher.
 

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If you catch herpes, your selection of girls will decrease dramatically once they see all those nasty bumps and pus filled boils all over your genital area. It will send them running for the hills.
 
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