"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is women's hypergamy making it so that chicks are all getting Chad's sp3rm donations?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me purturbed:
The official suitor bios of The Bachelorette, whose 15th season premieres Monday night, are studied attempts at masculine posturing: Chasen became a pilot to impress the ladies. Garrett once snuck into a football stadium to make out with his girlfriend. Connor’s grandmother (but not Connor himself!) says he deserves a “sexy lady” to give her grandkids.

So what should viewers make of Matteo, 25, a management consultant from Atlanta, who says he has fathered 114 children as a sperm donor?
As once-secret sperm donations have become discussed more openly, DNA tests and online registries have also revealed cases in which single donors have produced 50, 100, even 189 biological children. These stories provoke an obvious question: How many children is too many for a single donor?
my opinion: Even with 99%-ile academic aptitude test scores & being white, I was declined to be a sp3rm donor in college because I was far below the height standards. :mad::mad: It is pretty clear that womyn are now simply getting their Chad "husband" by simply being allowing Chad's seed to fertilize them - and the beta male is only good enough for a husband & step-daddy role, even going so far as to shame men for not "manning up" when a single mommy needs a man. I'm disgusted. :down::down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was reading this, and it got me purturbed:



my opinion: Even with 99%-ile academic aptitude test scores & being white, I was declined to be a sp3rm donor in college because I was far below the height standards. :mad::mad: It is pretty clear that womyn are now simply getting their Chad "husband" by simply being allowing Chad's seed to fertilize them - and the beta male is only good enough for a husband & step-daddy role, even going so far as to shame men for not "manning up" when a single mommy needs a man. I'm disgusted. :down::down:
Man up when You realize her motive and pump and dump it like a pro with a purpose.
 

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Man up when You realize her motive and pump and dump it like a pro with a purpose.
Hey, if you manning up means that you deceive her into thinking you're going to step up, pump and dump, who cares? They're trying to use you with their feminine wiles, why not use that to your advantage. Tap that a$$, drop a load in her eye and move on once she realizes you're not going to be that stupid. I think it'd be funny as hell to drop a load on her face and tell her you're not interested in being step daddy, then walking out the door.
 

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Why would you deal with a woman that had children that way in the first place, let alone having kids?
 
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