Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I just don't like children because children will come up with responses like this, what good will it do trying to insult other people over the internet.Then all the potheads crying out "Make weed legal!" It's pathetic , but then again all the potheads will defend this thread with their life like they have been doing.
Really did you just call me a child? LOL that's cool but then again good job contradicting yourself ...but my "Childish," Response still show's merit....pot heads are an epidemic and serve no real purpose in society and all they are doing is corrupting more and more people and seeing the majority of people in HS smoke weed and the fact that even middle school kids are beginning to smoke shows what weed is doing to our society....but then again I guess the best course of action is to make it legal....ya.War Against Betaism said:I'm no pothead but what annoys me are responses like these:
I just don't like children because children will come up with responses like this, what good will it do trying to insult other people over the internet.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
First off I didn't call you a child, I said that your last line was a very childish response, duh. And you're really exaggerating just how bad weed makes people, if they weren't potheads then they would just be lazy slackers, it's not like if you remove weed from the earth that potheads are suddenly going to become civilized and productive human beings.j0n024 said:Really did you just call me a child? LOL that's cool but then again good job contradicting yourself ...but my "Childish," Response still show's merit....pot heads are an epidemic and serve no real purpose in society and all they are doing is corrupting more and more people and seeing the majority of people in HS smoke weed and the fact that even middle school kids are beginning to smoke shows what weed is doing to our society....but then again I guess the best course of action is to make it legal....ya.