"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is Walking Good for Your Heart?

Frank2500

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I was just curious. I walk pretty much six days a week back and forth to school and work for several miles and then hop on buses and trains to get around in the city. Those of you who've been working out for quite a while, do you think regular walking, (if you haven't done much cardio in a while) is good for your heart as well and can help prevent heart disease? How about if you go to the gym at least three days a week to lift weights and work out without necessarily doing cardio...is that any good for your heart either?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skilla_Staz

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Well, to an extent.


But to answer the question, yes, walking is good for your heart. It builds up your cardiovascular strength which will cause you a butt load fewer problems than you would if you never exercised. Plus, you won't get winded walking up the stairs.
 

donjuanjovi

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Walking has been shown to cause certain types of cancer in lab rats and should be avoided at all costs...... Or maybe that was tobacco
 

PleasureKing

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donjuanjovi said:
Walking has been shown to cause certain types of cancer in lab rats and should be avoided at all costs...... Or maybe that was tobacco
you had me going there.....:crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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True Wolf

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Haha me too...
 
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