“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dated this girl for about 8 months, she didn't want to be exclusive, i caught her in a few lies... anyways, long story short we used to see each other work a few times throughout the week until i stopped working there and got another job.

She would text me saying she would miss me , and that shes still not ever me etc.. I tried setting a few dates up for us to go out but it just never went through, she says shes too busy with school and no one is really able to keep up with her "busy lifestyle"...

Last week she sent me a text saying that she thinks she failed an exam, and i replied why she feels that way, and since then I have not gotten a response and haven't texted her back.. IMO i don't think she will be texting me.


Anyways, her b day is coming up oct 25 and i was just thinking ahead and wondering if it is worth sending her a happy birthday text or is that too wimpy to do?

I don't know why I have oneitits with this girl....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's not wimpy.

If your goal is to bang her, then sure, use her b-day to keep the lines of communication moving.

If your goal is to have a relationship, then I'd say she's way too flaky and to just let communication die.
 
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Gdupm6 said:
She would text me saying she would miss me , and that shes still not ever me etc.. I tried setting a few dates up for us to go out but it just never went through, she says shes too busy with school and no one is really able to keep up with her "busy lifestyle"...

Last week she sent me a text saying that she thinks she failed an exam, and i replied why she feels that way, and since then I have not gotten a response and haven't texted her back.. IMO i don't think she will be texting me.
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From time to time she contacts you to figure out if 'you're still on hold', and you promptly let her know that you're still available whenever she wants. As simple as that.

Or do you honestly think that a failed exam was any sort of reason to text you?

Ignore a few texts/contacts, ignore her birthday, then after weeks send her a casual message. Let her know your time and willingness is limited... be unpredictable, disappear for weeks, make and break dates... shake her confidence...
 
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Well if i went into depth about whey she texted me about her exam you would know.. I just tried to make it short and easier for you guys to read.

I'm a licensed nurse and shes almost graduating her nursing school, and before when we would be much closer, dating seriously etc.. we had a lot to talk about especially regarding school, tests, different subjects, etc.. thats the reason why she texted me about her exam.

I've had sex with her many times, but the thing is throughout our relationship ive been going to extra mile every time, i always would initiate things.


So i mean after the few times that i tried setting up a few dates for us to go out hang out after us not seeing each other for a while, she just kept telling me she couldnt, shes busy etc.. So i mean how much can i keep trying?
 
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So i mean after the few times that i tried setting up a few dates for us to go out hang out after us not seeing each other for a while, she just kept telling me she couldnt, shes busy etc.. So i mean how much can i keep trying?
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Like Richard Feynman would say: "You must not fool yourself, and remember you are the easiest person to fool."

The 'depth of the text' is not nearly as important as the fact that she didn't text you back.

You're missing the whole point: the point is that you shouldn't be trying at all.

Your attitude screams 'backup guy' who will always be there when tough times arrive. That's the recipe for friendship not for a romantic relationship.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I completely agree, and this is why i have backed off, i haven't texted her at all, its been over a week, and since weve known each other, this has been the longest weve gone without seeing/talking to each other..
 
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I know i posted this a while ago, but im just bumping to get a few more responses regarding my original post. THanks again guys
 
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nothing new... We both have not contacted or seen each other since the original post.
 
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