MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is this woman disrespecting her man?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Aristippus
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They know what is respectful and disrespectful because they can put on the act of being respectful during the early stages of dating. In order to put on an act of being respectful, you have to know what being respectful is, even if you're faking it. The knowledge is there in their brain and many women use this act to rope a man in during the early stages of dating, only to change for the worse once they've been seeing each other for a while and the man is emotionally invested.
if she's a green card alien and you divorce, back she goes. After seeing how superior life is here, think she wants to risk THAT? 
Get a foreign woman, guys, you've got at least a 5 year "warranty" on her that way and you know right where to go to get her replacement.
Get a foreign woman, guys, you've got at least a 5 year "warranty" on her that way and you know right where to go to get her replacement."Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.