MatureDJ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this woman disrespecting her man?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Aristippus
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They know what is respectful and disrespectful because they can put on the act of being respectful during the early stages of dating. In order to put on an act of being respectful, you have to know what being respectful is, even if you're faking it. The knowledge is there in their brain and many women use this act to rope a man in during the early stages of dating, only to change for the worse once they've been seeing each other for a while and the man is emotionally invested.
if she's a green card alien and you divorce, back she goes. After seeing how superior life is here, think she wants to risk THAT? 
Get a foreign woman, guys, you've got at least a 5 year "warranty" on her that way and you know right where to go to get her replacement.
Get a foreign woman, guys, you've got at least a 5 year "warranty" on her that way and you know right where to go to get her replacement."I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.