"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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is this Wild Girl looking for Validation?

souperblitz99

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There is this girl that I work with. I just think of her as a friend and nothing more. But I want to be the guy that gives every girl a chance. Instead of girls not giving me a chance. I'm thinking of going out with her as a friend. Here is my story. when a bunch of our friends meet she showed everyone her g string. I to be different showed no interest. She wondered why and asked why I didn't bother looking. (I was trying to be a little more hard to get.) In a way I think it actually worked. in the past I was always the cat chancing the mouse. it feels really good being chased for once. I'll definitely say she is a pretty girl. I am totally opposite of her i'm more shy. I and my male friend just caught myself looking at her and he said I ask her out. i don't want to hurt her because she is a good friend but I'm not really sure if I should pursue this. She showed me a sexy low cut top and asked me if it was to much. i once again just said with no interest "I guess if you think so."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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f29d6h

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All depends on what you're after once you ask her out.

I'll let the more experienced DJ's handle that end of the equation.
 

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Your intentions are not really clear with this girl.
Make it clear with her
friends or not
 
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