"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is this Wild Girl looking for Validation?

souperblitz99

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There is this girl that I work with. I just think of her as a friend and nothing more. But I want to be the guy that gives every girl a chance. Instead of girls not giving me a chance. I'm thinking of going out with her as a friend. Here is my story. when a bunch of our friends meet she showed everyone her g string. I to be different showed no interest. She wondered why and asked why I didn't bother looking. (I was trying to be a little more hard to get.) In a way I think it actually worked. in the past I was always the cat chancing the mouse. it feels really good being chased for once. I'll definitely say she is a pretty girl. I am totally opposite of her i'm more shy. I and my male friend just caught myself looking at her and he said I ask her out. i don't want to hurt her because she is a good friend but I'm not really sure if I should pursue this. She showed me a sexy low cut top and asked me if it was to much. i once again just said with no interest "I guess if you think so."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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f29d6h

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All depends on what you're after once you ask her out.

I'll let the more experienced DJ's handle that end of the equation.
 

oneboy21

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Your intentions are not really clear with this girl.
Make it clear with her
friends or not
 
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