lately i have begun paying much more attention to women and what do they do. i have noticed this happens a lot whenever I am in public either watching a girl/checking her out as she approaches or walking by her, as she passes she will look at me quickly then look away and brush/stroke her hair after. a lot of women i notice do this so it can't be a coincidence. is this their way of "putting themselves" out there? it would be helpful if they smiled, but in my experience most aren't that obvious.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
is this what women do when they think you're attractive?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
heh, yeah, i normally talk to them and find out that way, but i just came across this dj stuff online and the thing i described was an observation i made because it happens to me a lot. wondered if this is the kind of stuff i should be looking for.
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Quite possibly, you are getting checked out.
Myself, I will scan every female in sight, and girls are quite like the same, they will scan the area for guys.
Now, you catch their eye, and a few things happen. You can lock eyes, she'll quickly look away, or something along the sort of her not really paying attention and she'll drift away.
Eye contact is good, it's the approach you have to work on.
If you need help, follow the link in my signature to the forum I help run and introduce yourself =)
Myself, I will scan every female in sight, and girls are quite like the same, they will scan the area for guys.
Now, you catch their eye, and a few things happen. You can lock eyes, she'll quickly look away, or something along the sort of her not really paying attention and she'll drift away.
Eye contact is good, it's the approach you have to work on.
If you need help, follow the link in my signature to the forum I help run and introduce yourself =)