"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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www.thefriendzone.co

should i do what it says to get out of the friendzone or will it screw my chances with this girl even more? (im deep in the friendzone here)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is pretty good actually, about her havin the power is true, i feel that way with some girls, like i cant move or do what i think, and escaping is not very easy
 
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Its not worth spending too much effort trying to get out of the friendzone, but you should still take all of the advice on that site. Spend your energy looking for other girls at the same time as being less predictable and not always being there for her - it enhances your odds of eventually getting together whilst giving opportunities with other better girls who haven't friendzoned you yet.

Friendzone is a horrible thing and I think most guys end up there at least once. No guy past the age of 20 should ever let himself fall into that trap again though
 
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is pretty good actually, about her havin the power is true, i feel that way with some girls, like i cant move or do what i think, and escaping is not very easy
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That's why as a man you stamp your authority and stand up for yourself.
 
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getting out of the friendzone is way too much work. move and and work on someone new and avoid the freindzone this time kapiche?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@ the pectoralismajor.... i used to think that too.. then i met a girl who was worth doing 'too much work' for.
 
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I like that site. I especially think "avoid the friendzone" is spot on. Once u are in that zone, it's hard to get out, but what he says about avoiding it is great. Don't ever let a girl phase you. Just do your thing, if she likes you, she will want to be with you. Don't let her mood swings and how she treats you, effect your happiness. Just act like you can find someone who will treat you better, they hate that. Great site.

But just remember, sometimes, you can actually treat a girl like a friend, and if she is ATTRACTED enough, she will still want you. But this takes JEALOUSY. She HAS TO SEE YOU WITH OTHER WOMEN. I have one of these. I did all these things that are bad. But I make sure she knows about my sex adventures with other women, and she loves it. I'm sure if I wanted to, I could fuvk her. JEALOUSY is a very, very powerful tool. This, though, has to be with a girl who friendzoned you but still thinks you are "hot". She asked me to go see a movie with her, but I said "is your boyfriend okay with that? Cause if I get you in the dark, I will make out with you". She eats it up, but I don't like her that much, otherwise, I would never be in the friendzone, I would have been more careful.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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