Is this typical female behaviour? Am I doing something wrong?

[Cerwin Vega]

So I met this HB8 in a club by doing everything by the book. Been nofap for 2 weeks already so my testosterone was sky high.

I live in a foreign country and don't speak the language well (working on it), she's a local who barely speaks English, well, we didn't do much taking in the club (heavy making out) but that ended by exchanging email addresses as we said goodbye.

We emailed back and forth, scheduled for ice cream, used Google Translate most of the time, was a bit weird but fine, a week or so later I invited her over to my place for dinner. We ****ed for like 2 hours and then I walked her home.

Her emails became a lot more "friendly" and warm, more frequent. We scheduled once again, she showed up and basically shut me down every time I tried to make a move. The language barrier was a real problem here, I finally confronted her and asked her what the F is going on. She said "I want to but I am bleeding".......hahaha well, I told her it's all cool and we still ****ed. She was on her period but I was horny like a dog.

So we talked back and forth on email since, I asked her out twice already to meet for coffee at my university and every time she declined ("not good time for me, sorry "). I mean, I never get to see her during the week and we're studying at the same university for ****'s sake!
It also takes her hours to answer my emails (I let her wait as well, lol)


So today I asked her about her plans for the weekend and she said she'll be studying a lot for her test on monday and we can only meet next week "sorry.....".

WTF is going on? Am I being too needy?

What should I email her back? Is it normal that we barely talk?

Thanks guys

 

[Juanto]

I would say, now just let her come to you. Pursuing her now will just drive her away.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

showed desperation by f*cking on her period, OR just another guy, possible boyfriend.

When you're on nofap and you're expecting sex for a whole week and then the only thing stopping you from getting it is a little menstrual blood?
Especially when you're a 2nd year med student?

 

[Cerwin Vega]

I would say, now just let her come to you. Pursuing her now will just drive her away.

OK so what should I do now? Not reply at all and wait for her to contact me once more?

 

[Juanto]

She said she´d be free next week right, so just tell her something like "OK no problem, so let me know when you are free" If she still wants to meet you, she will get back to you. You already invited her like 3 times in a row, stop that.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

She said she´d be free next week right, so just tell her something like "OK no problem, so let me know when you are free" If she still wants to meet you, she will get back to you. You already invited her like 3 times in a row, stop that.

Wouldn't it imply that my calendar is free all the time and I'm just sitting there waiting for her..? I mean that's probably better than whatever I've done so far this week but...

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Man, who really cares? She is in your rotation, isn't she?

If your rotation consists solely of her, then you need to change - not her.

You have approached how many women since you had PIV-sex with her?

One, but I'm a f**king med student, no time bro.

 

[Juanto]

Wouldn't it imply that my calendar is free all the time and I'm just sitting there waiting for her..? I mean that's probably better than whatever I've done so far this week but...

It doesnt matter because you will walk away and never look back, unless she contacts you.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

It doesnt matter because you will walk away and never look back, unless she contacts you.

Alright, done. Thanks for the advice

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Then here is your weakness.

You think this girl gives a sh*t for your circumstance, and takes that into account for her attraction? lol.

All I'm saying is that you take your circumstances into account, and plan accordingly. She sure as hell won't.

Got it. Girls don't act on logic.

 

[sazc]

I would say, now just let her come to you. Pursuing her now will just drive her away.

THIS

you asked, she told you she was busy. no need to reply with anything. if she is interested she will text when she is free. in the meantime, dont wait, keep pursuing other chicks

 

[Cerwin Vega]

OK lads she just sent me a message saying "OK" and asking me what am I doing right now and about my exams. I have no idea what's up with this girl. What should I do? Answer? No?

I really do have lots of exams, I'll be only free on monday afternoon

 

[2Rocky]

"Hey there, I'm studying hard for these exams at the end of the week. On Monday afternoon I'm going to be ready to blow off some steam. If you think you can keep up, I'll swing by and meet you at 3:00 pm and we can make the most of this brief moment together. You like Red or White? (wine)"

 

[Cerwin Vega]

I will text her after my exam on Friday. The problem is, I don't know if she can do Monday and I don't want her to cancel yet another invitation.

How about if I ask her on Thursday? Isn't it too early? (6 days in advance)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I will text her after my exam on Friday. The problem is, I don't know if she can do Monday and I don't want her to cancel yet another invitation.

How about if I ask her on Thursday? Isn't it too early? (6 days in advance)

When you get to the point that they are flaking like this, can stop talking to her for a week. After about 3 days she will become a little concerned.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

When you get to the point that they are flaking like this, can stop talking to her for a week. After about 3 days she will become a little concerned.

That's why I'm withdrawing my focus and will reply on Friday (about 3 days since her email)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That's why I'm withdrawing my focus and will reply on Friday (about 3 days since her email)

Might as well hit the gym harder, get some reading done or something.

 

[dude99]

So I met this HB8 in a club by doing everything by the book. Been nofap for 2 weeks already so my testosterone was sky high.

I live in a foreign country and don't speak the language well (working on it), she's a local who barely speaks English, well, we didn't do much taking in the club (heavy making out) but that ended by exchanging email addresses as we said goodbye.

We emailed back and forth, scheduled for ice cream, used Google Translate most of the time, was a bit weird but fine, a week or so later I invited her over to my place for dinner. We ****ed for like 2 hours and then I walked her home.

Her emails became a lot more "friendly" and warm, more frequent. We scheduled once again, she showed up and basically shut me down every time I tried to make a move. The language barrier was a real problem here, I finally confronted her and asked her what the F is going on. She said "I want to but I am bleeding".......hahaha well, I told her it's all cool and we still ****ed. She was on her period but I was horny like a dog.

So we talked back and forth on email since, I asked her out twice already to meet for coffee at my university and every time she declined ("not good time for me, sorry "). I mean, I never get to see her during the week and we're studying at the same university for ****'s sake!
It also takes her hours to answer my emails (I let her wait as well, lol)


So today I asked her about her plans for the weekend and she said she'll be studying a lot for her test on monday and we can only meet next week "sorry.....".

WTF is going on? Am I being too needy?

What should I email her back? Is it normal that we barely talk?

Thanks guys

Withdraw attention. If she is interested, she will miss you snd reach out. If not, you have your answer.

 

[dude99]

Man, who really cares? She is in your rotation, isn't she?

If your rotation consists solely of her, then you need to change - not her.

You have approached how many women since you had PIV-sex with her?

This ^^

 

[dude99]

One, but I'm a f**king med student, no time bro.

Then focus on your medical degree and smash women when you are done.