"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this type of relationship possible?

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I guess what I'm looking for is a monogamous relationship with the intensity of a fling or a f*** buddy/friends with benefits. Two people that can't get their hands off each other...fool around all the time, have sex often, don't talk about extra serious stuff too much, and so on.

Two examples...there's a Frasier episode where Frasier and this woman have sex all the time and can't keep their hands off each other. There's mutual physical attraction and the physical chemistry is perfect. She's kind of a flake, but he doesn't care, and she doesn't care that he thinks she's a flake as she only wants to be f***ed.

In the movie Sea Of Love with Al Pacino and Ellen Barkin...Pacino says "I feel like I'm a teenager all over again." They have all kinds of wild sex, roleplay, etc., but at the same time are exclusive and also go out for drinks and talk too.

It seems like most of the guys I know, even the cool guys, are in AFC type relationships where most of it involves doing non-sexual, non-fun things.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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