"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this type of relationship possible?

thegator39

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I guess what I'm looking for is a monogamous relationship with the intensity of a fling or a f*** buddy/friends with benefits. Two people that can't get their hands off each other...fool around all the time, have sex often, don't talk about extra serious stuff too much, and so on.

Two examples...there's a Frasier episode where Frasier and this woman have sex all the time and can't keep their hands off each other. There's mutual physical attraction and the physical chemistry is perfect. She's kind of a flake, but he doesn't care, and she doesn't care that he thinks she's a flake as she only wants to be f***ed.

In the movie Sea Of Love with Al Pacino and Ellen Barkin...Pacino says "I feel like I'm a teenager all over again." They have all kinds of wild sex, roleplay, etc., but at the same time are exclusive and also go out for drinks and talk too.

It seems like most of the guys I know, even the cool guys, are in AFC type relationships where most of it involves doing non-sexual, non-fun things.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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