"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this type of relationship possible?

thegator39

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I guess what I'm looking for is a monogamous relationship with the intensity of a fling or a f*** buddy/friends with benefits. Two people that can't get their hands off each other...fool around all the time, have sex often, don't talk about extra serious stuff too much, and so on.

Two examples...there's a Frasier episode where Frasier and this woman have sex all the time and can't keep their hands off each other. There's mutual physical attraction and the physical chemistry is perfect. She's kind of a flake, but he doesn't care, and she doesn't care that he thinks she's a flake as she only wants to be f***ed.

In the movie Sea Of Love with Al Pacino and Ellen Barkin...Pacino says "I feel like I'm a teenager all over again." They have all kinds of wild sex, roleplay, etc., but at the same time are exclusive and also go out for drinks and talk too.

It seems like most of the guys I know, even the cool guys, are in AFC type relationships where most of it involves doing non-sexual, non-fun things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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