The only way to be successful at a club is to avoid talking and just walk over to girls and start dancing? If you have an A club game, can you share some tips on how I can improve myself? It can be suggestions regarding fashion, standard openers that work in a club environment, best nights to go, etc. I'm an attractive guy, I just need tips to push me in the right direction. Thanks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Is this true?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
False.
Dancing shouldn't be your only option.
Once you spot your girl, approach immediately. Don't let her
catch you stealing glances. As soon as there's a point of
eye contact, move in 10 seconds after.
Don't make it seem like your picking her up.
Once you walk up to her, ask "Having a great time?"
Then, introduce yourself, offer a hand shake, and then the game is on!
Continue asking her...
"So what brings you here today? are you out hunting for guys?"
If you notice something intriguing about what she has on, that also
makes a great conversational opener.
What matters most is your approach, delivery, and sense of security.
NOTE: Don't spend too much time mingling. Excuse yourself after 3-5 minutes of talk. Leave on a high note.
Then, return to her later and get her e-mail/number. You'll most likely get it
Dancing shouldn't be your only option.
Once you spot your girl, approach immediately. Don't let her
catch you stealing glances. As soon as there's a point of
eye contact, move in 10 seconds after.
Don't make it seem like your picking her up.
Once you walk up to her, ask "Having a great time?"
Then, introduce yourself, offer a hand shake, and then the game is on!
Continue asking her...
"So what brings you here today? are you out hunting for guys?"
If you notice something intriguing about what she has on, that also
makes a great conversational opener.
What matters most is your approach, delivery, and sense of security.
NOTE: Don't spend too much time mingling. Excuse yourself after 3-5 minutes of talk. Leave on a high note.
Then, return to her later and get her e-mail/number. You'll most likely get it
It's just so loud in these places. I see guys all the time walk up to girls and just start dancing with them. Or there would be a group a girls and a guy walks over there, says a thing or two, and leads her to go dancing. Sometimes I wonder if they already know each other.