The only way to be successful at a club is to avoid talking and just walk over to girls and start dancing? If you have an A club game, can you share some tips on how I can improve myself? It can be suggestions regarding fashion, standard openers that work in a club environment, best nights to go, etc. I'm an attractive guy, I just need tips to push me in the right direction. Thanks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this true?
- Thread starter razkay
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
False.
Dancing shouldn't be your only option.
Once you spot your girl, approach immediately. Don't let her
catch you stealing glances. As soon as there's a point of
eye contact, move in 10 seconds after.
Don't make it seem like your picking her up.
Once you walk up to her, ask "Having a great time?"
Then, introduce yourself, offer a hand shake, and then the game is on!
Continue asking her...
"So what brings you here today? are you out hunting for guys?"
If you notice something intriguing about what she has on, that also
makes a great conversational opener.
What matters most is your approach, delivery, and sense of security.
NOTE: Don't spend too much time mingling. Excuse yourself after 3-5 minutes of talk. Leave on a high note.
Then, return to her later and get her e-mail/number. You'll most likely get it
Dancing shouldn't be your only option.
Once you spot your girl, approach immediately. Don't let her
catch you stealing glances. As soon as there's a point of
eye contact, move in 10 seconds after.
Don't make it seem like your picking her up.
Once you walk up to her, ask "Having a great time?"
Then, introduce yourself, offer a hand shake, and then the game is on!
Continue asking her...
"So what brings you here today? are you out hunting for guys?"
If you notice something intriguing about what she has on, that also
makes a great conversational opener.
What matters most is your approach, delivery, and sense of security.
NOTE: Don't spend too much time mingling. Excuse yourself after 3-5 minutes of talk. Leave on a high note.
Then, return to her later and get her e-mail/number. You'll most likely get it
It's just so loud in these places. I see guys all the time walk up to girls and just start dancing with them. Or there would be a group a girls and a guy walks over there, says a thing or two, and leads her to go dancing. Sometimes I wonder if they already know each other.