The only way to be successful at a club is to avoid talking and just walk over to girls and start dancing? If you have an A club game, can you share some tips on how I can improve myself? It can be suggestions regarding fashion, standard openers that work in a club environment, best nights to go, etc. I'm an attractive guy, I just need tips to push me in the right direction. Thanks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Is this true?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
False.
Dancing shouldn't be your only option.
Once you spot your girl, approach immediately. Don't let her
catch you stealing glances. As soon as there's a point of
eye contact, move in 10 seconds after.
Don't make it seem like your picking her up.
Once you walk up to her, ask "Having a great time?"
Then, introduce yourself, offer a hand shake, and then the game is on!
Continue asking her...
"So what brings you here today? are you out hunting for guys?"
If you notice something intriguing about what she has on, that also
makes a great conversational opener.
What matters most is your approach, delivery, and sense of security.
NOTE: Don't spend too much time mingling. Excuse yourself after 3-5 minutes of talk. Leave on a high note.
Then, return to her later and get her e-mail/number. You'll most likely get it
Dancing shouldn't be your only option.
Once you spot your girl, approach immediately. Don't let her
catch you stealing glances. As soon as there's a point of
eye contact, move in 10 seconds after.
Don't make it seem like your picking her up.
Once you walk up to her, ask "Having a great time?"
Then, introduce yourself, offer a hand shake, and then the game is on!
Continue asking her...
"So what brings you here today? are you out hunting for guys?"
If you notice something intriguing about what she has on, that also
makes a great conversational opener.
What matters most is your approach, delivery, and sense of security.
NOTE: Don't spend too much time mingling. Excuse yourself after 3-5 minutes of talk. Leave on a high note.
Then, return to her later and get her e-mail/number. You'll most likely get it
It's just so loud in these places. I see guys all the time walk up to girls and just start dancing with them. Or there would be a group a girls and a guy walks over there, says a thing or two, and leads her to go dancing. Sometimes I wonder if they already know each other.