You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I agree.lordson said:this thread is dead and redundant.
close it up somebody
I would say the hot ones are very very picky. The rest not so much.ChrizZ said:Women love sex. They are just very, very picky when it comes down to who they have sex with.
Correction. Women love sex with BAD BOYZ. If they find the right guy with a cool criminal record, and scars from knife fights, and if he has a drug and alcohol problem, their sexual fantasies will be fullfilled, and the sex will be so great that when they climax, sparks will fly out of their asses.L777 said:This is the biggest load of BS I've ever heard. Women LOVE sex, probably more than men. You ever heard and seen a woman ***? Compare that to how a man looks and sounds when he climaxes, and ppl say men are the ones that think about sex all the time.
Don't get it twisted, women love sex with the right guy, and if its good they will keep coming back over and over and over. Its just up to you to be that guy.
Lol I have none of those and I'm doing OK.JackPrescott said:Correction. Women love sex with BAD BOYZ. If they find the right guy with a cool criminal record, and scars from knife fights, and if he has a drug and alcohol problem, their sexual fantasies will be fullfilled, and the sex will be so great that when they climax, sparks will fly out of their asses.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I read the topic and immediately knew this post was going to be filled with crap for the simple fact that women DO NOT hate sex, however, they love it. Why do you think girls dress the way they do? They want to get attention from guys and why do they want attention from guys? Sex. If they hate sex so much... why do so many of them masturbate? It really makes you think. Why do women grind at dances? They want sexual validation. So in the end, the statement that women hate sex is BS.Shyyhs said:Why women hate sex.
Out of all the problems that have ever or will ever exist on the Earth, there is only one that men haven’t and will never be able to solve — not because they can’t, because that’s ridiculous, but because the problem is unsolvable by design. Women hate sex.
That’s it, there you have it. The end-all, be-all of cluster ****s. But why?
Do women hate sex — and they do — because of some kind of woman-guilt from an outdated puritan societal dogma? Or perhaps a stigma of guilt or a fear of abandonment? No. None of these things are it. Women hate sex simply because they are lousy at it.
This can be proved in a quick stroll down the checkout aisle at your local market of groceries — a place thick to the rafters with women. Take a look at some of their magazines and you will no doubt see a running theme: ‘Ten Ways to not suck in bed’, ‘Six Things to do to Your Man that aren’t Lay There Like a Futon’, and ‘Honestly who gives half a **** about socks being on or off? Jesus Christ that’s pathetic’.
Also, much in the same way that a wall probably doesn’t like or doesn’t care about playing tennis with you, it’s definitely not your fault. Don’t let your sympathetic male compassion get the better of you. You could be dancing around like a maniac and pulling stunts out of your figurative ass like Johnny Magic the Wicked Awesome — maybe some whirl-arounds and in your face spikes from across the court — it’s really up to you as the man — but no matter what, the wall will remain unfazed. It just sits there doing nothing like a lump on a log probably thinking that it wants a new expensive coat of paint.
This same theory can be applied to many other things as well. For example: that women hate problems.
In Chinese, the symbol for crisis is the same as opportunity. I haven’t looked that up, but I heard it from a man so it’s probably true because us men have something called integrity. This means that in a time of crisis, we men are at our show stopping best. Take a flat tire on a moonless night for instance. While a man is out changing nuts and bolts and doing all manner of screwing on the side of the road, will a woman so much as think to grab a flashlight and help? No.
That’s because women hate holding flashlights, because they are complete rubbish at it. Force a woman to hold a flashlight when it matters and you’re likely to catch her aiming it into the sky for absolutely no goddamn reason. You’re better off just duct taping it to a mailbox and catapulting it into space.
http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/why-women-hate-sex/