"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this the friends zone?

ICaughtFire

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This chick and i knew eachother for a few weeks now, and we hung out twice just watching movies.

i am not really trying hard to get her, i tease her and neg hit her but overal i am using her as a practice or a test

i flirted with her lightly n called her sugar, she just laughed n said she liked it etc

last nite she was force to have new year dinner with her parents, she told me to text her, but i didnt really take it seriously, so i just sent her a happy new year text

then today she said im rude and angry because i didnt text her even though she asked me to, i was like :s

n 2nite we talked on msn n she asked me wat kind of sexual kinky stuff have i done

so we exchanged our sexual experience and what was the furtherest we have gone ( we are both early teens give us a break lol)

so was that signs that i am in the friends zone?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think just the opposite.
If you talked about her sexual experiences with her ex boyfriends than you would be LJBFd.
 

ICaughtFire

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lol close she told me how her ex tried to pulled her up close to her and **** grind her in a party when she refused

so she went away and dumped him after
 

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you should prolly stop being so young

become at least 19 or 20


hope this helps
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by ICaughtFire


so was that signs that i am in the friends zone?

NO. If she tries to guide conversations in a sexual direction then you're probably in good shape.

and like warlord said, the high school forum might be more helpful for you.
 
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