"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this the friends zone?

ICaughtFire

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This chick and i knew eachother for a few weeks now, and we hung out twice just watching movies.

i am not really trying hard to get her, i tease her and neg hit her but overal i am using her as a practice or a test

i flirted with her lightly n called her sugar, she just laughed n said she liked it etc

last nite she was force to have new year dinner with her parents, she told me to text her, but i didnt really take it seriously, so i just sent her a happy new year text

then today she said im rude and angry because i didnt text her even though she asked me to, i was like :s

n 2nite we talked on msn n she asked me wat kind of sexual kinky stuff have i done

so we exchanged our sexual experience and what was the furtherest we have gone ( we are both early teens give us a break lol)

so was that signs that i am in the friends zone?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think just the opposite.
If you talked about her sexual experiences with her ex boyfriends than you would be LJBFd.
 

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lol close she told me how her ex tried to pulled her up close to her and **** grind her in a party when she refused

so she went away and dumped him after
 

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you should prolly stop being so young

become at least 19 or 20


hope this helps
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by ICaughtFire


so was that signs that i am in the friends zone?

NO. If she tries to guide conversations in a sexual direction then you're probably in good shape.

and like warlord said, the high school forum might be more helpful for you.
 
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