"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this succesful c&f?

Pathgen

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Ok we are chatting about what she likes to do and she told me video games. I was trying to be C&F, but feel that i messed up somewhere along the line. I also wish i said something better than cool at the end >.<. What would you guys have said/done. I want to hear what a experienced dj would have said because i dont think i handled it right.
Her: Well if we ever hang out you're welcome to play with me.

Path: hmm that can be read two ways =P. im getting ahead of myself though

Path: yeah defintely we should play though come to think of it i have a gamecube here but i dont know if it works

Her: Let's try the not so perverted way =)

Path: ok and if it doesnt work?

Her: If it doesn't work we'll play on my console. lol

Path: cool
Maybe im reading too much into this you tell me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pathgen said:
Ok we are chatting about what she likes to do and she told me video games. I was trying to be C&F, but feel that i messed up somewhere along the line. I also wish i said something better than cool at the end >.<. What would you guys have said/done. I want to hear what a experienced dj would have said because i dont think i handled it right.


Maybe im reading too much into this you tell me
I'd say you're overanalysing.

C&F works best when natural and flowing, thinking about it later just KILLS it.
 

Pathgen

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Thats very true i wont sweat it anymore it will come natural.
 
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