"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this succesful c&f?

Pathgen

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Ok we are chatting about what she likes to do and she told me video games. I was trying to be C&F, but feel that i messed up somewhere along the line. I also wish i said something better than cool at the end >.<. What would you guys have said/done. I want to hear what a experienced dj would have said because i dont think i handled it right.
Her: Well if we ever hang out you're welcome to play with me.

Path: hmm that can be read two ways =P. im getting ahead of myself though

Path: yeah defintely we should play though come to think of it i have a gamecube here but i dont know if it works

Her: Let's try the not so perverted way =)

Path: ok and if it doesnt work?

Her: If it doesn't work we'll play on my console. lol

Path: cool
Maybe im reading too much into this you tell me
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pathgen said:
Ok we are chatting about what she likes to do and she told me video games. I was trying to be C&F, but feel that i messed up somewhere along the line. I also wish i said something better than cool at the end >.<. What would you guys have said/done. I want to hear what a experienced dj would have said because i dont think i handled it right.


Maybe im reading too much into this you tell me
I'd say you're overanalysing.

C&F works best when natural and flowing, thinking about it later just KILLS it.
 

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Thats very true i wont sweat it anymore it will come natural.
 
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