So a bit of background on my situation...
I initially met this local cutie..probably a solid 8/10 ,on Tinder last Christmas while I was casually dating another girl. Long story short, we went out twice, made out a bit and parted ways as she got back together with her off and on bf and I continued with my girl at the time. She randomly messaged me 2 months after our last meet and told me she would be gone for a bit and would message me when she was back (social media showed me that she had moved across the country to be with her bf)
Fast forward to this past summer, she messaged me she was back in town. She would randomly start conversations but I didn't really read much into it because I was dating a new girl and she still appeared to still be with the same long term bf and I don't really try and get in taken girls pants.
Mid September, I saw an update on Facebook she was single and drunkenly started pursuing her via text. We set up a date for the following week.
For the past month and a half, we've been going out for drinks at local dives 1-2 times a week and having sex at my place after. In retrospect, it was kind of "bootycallish" in nature but I wanted to wait for a bit longer to see if we were actually compatible before mentally and formally taking things more seriously. A week ago she broke it off and said I " wasn't taking things in a serious direction" and though she really liked me, she didn't think it was right to continue.
We met a couple days later. She told me was looking to settle down (we're both 25) and she didn't get the vibe I was into it. The whole time she was playing with my hair and touching me, was super perky and we were actually cracking jokes and having a pretty open conversation. I dropped her off and told her to hit me up if she ever wants to hook up in the future and grabbed her ass and she giggled lol
Anyway, I know shes a shady chick, all over the place, probably banging another guy, etc. but I don't really care as I'm not trying to stay exclusive with her...I actually ended up liking her personality a lot and the sex was pretty great and shes local.
Been keeping it no contact....last night she sent me some pics of her Halloween costume and asked if I liked it lol but other then that no convos
I know the advice here is usually "go bang other girls" and I have been and have a couple others lined up ...I'm willing to accept this may be over but I'd still like to keep this one around if at all possible
Whats the best course of action here gents?
I initially met this local cutie..probably a solid 8/10 ,on Tinder last Christmas while I was casually dating another girl. Long story short, we went out twice, made out a bit and parted ways as she got back together with her off and on bf and I continued with my girl at the time. She randomly messaged me 2 months after our last meet and told me she would be gone for a bit and would message me when she was back (social media showed me that she had moved across the country to be with her bf)
Fast forward to this past summer, she messaged me she was back in town. She would randomly start conversations but I didn't really read much into it because I was dating a new girl and she still appeared to still be with the same long term bf and I don't really try and get in taken girls pants.
Mid September, I saw an update on Facebook she was single and drunkenly started pursuing her via text. We set up a date for the following week.
For the past month and a half, we've been going out for drinks at local dives 1-2 times a week and having sex at my place after. In retrospect, it was kind of "bootycallish" in nature but I wanted to wait for a bit longer to see if we were actually compatible before mentally and formally taking things more seriously. A week ago she broke it off and said I " wasn't taking things in a serious direction" and though she really liked me, she didn't think it was right to continue.
We met a couple days later. She told me was looking to settle down (we're both 25) and she didn't get the vibe I was into it. The whole time she was playing with my hair and touching me, was super perky and we were actually cracking jokes and having a pretty open conversation. I dropped her off and told her to hit me up if she ever wants to hook up in the future and grabbed her ass and she giggled lol
Anyway, I know shes a shady chick, all over the place, probably banging another guy, etc. but I don't really care as I'm not trying to stay exclusive with her...I actually ended up liking her personality a lot and the sex was pretty great and shes local.
Been keeping it no contact....last night she sent me some pics of her Halloween costume and asked if I liked it lol but other then that no convos
I know the advice here is usually "go bang other girls" and I have been and have a couple others lined up ...I'm willing to accept this may be over but I'd still like to keep this one around if at all possible
Whats the best course of action here gents?
