"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is This Showing Too Much Intrest????

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Basically, my friend is the defination of a dj and he also proves looks dont matter. Hes short, skinny, looks like he's 12 but is really 16, but he gets girls all the time like its no big deal. Then comes along a girl he REALL likes and shows what I think is a lot of intrest really soon. This is bad right? Well anyway, he has the most afc poem message on his aim profile over this girl. Is this too much intrest too soon(At the absolute most he went out w her once)? I'm looking out for him, ya know. You decide:


yooo im (his name)



i ****innn lovee (her name)


But I'd rather be broke down with you by my side

I didn't know what I was looking for

So I didn't know what I'd find

I didn't know what I was missing

I guess you've been just a little too kind

And if I find just what I need

I'll put a little peace in my mind

Maybe you've been looking too

Or maybe you don't even need to try

Without you I was broken



i want to be with (her name)

(my reaction) :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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honestly, who gives a shiit. you dont know all the conversations they have together, how deep they may have gotten, how much she wants him etc...if he is showing too much attraction, she'll drop him and he'll bounce back. he sounds like a tough puppy.
 

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Heh... Am I the only one who thinks that there may not be any friend that he's looking out for?
First thing that crossed my mind.
 

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Mr_rogers said:
Heh... Am I the only one who thinks that there may not be any friend that he's looking out for?;)
Actually, he kinda motivated me out of my afc phase a little and my personality is starting to resemble his...so yea...he was kind of looking out for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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