"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is This Showing Too Much Intrest????

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Basically, my friend is the defination of a dj and he also proves looks dont matter. Hes short, skinny, looks like he's 12 but is really 16, but he gets girls all the time like its no big deal. Then comes along a girl he REALL likes and shows what I think is a lot of intrest really soon. This is bad right? Well anyway, he has the most afc poem message on his aim profile over this girl. Is this too much intrest too soon(At the absolute most he went out w her once)? I'm looking out for him, ya know. You decide:


yooo im (his name)



i ****innn lovee (her name)


But I'd rather be broke down with you by my side

I didn't know what I was looking for

So I didn't know what I'd find

I didn't know what I was missing

I guess you've been just a little too kind

And if I find just what I need

I'll put a little peace in my mind

Maybe you've been looking too

Or maybe you don't even need to try

Without you I was broken



i want to be with (her name)

(my reaction) :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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honestly, who gives a shiit. you dont know all the conversations they have together, how deep they may have gotten, how much she wants him etc...if he is showing too much attraction, she'll drop him and he'll bounce back. he sounds like a tough puppy.
 

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Heh... Am I the only one who thinks that there may not be any friend that he's looking out for?
First thing that crossed my mind.
 

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Mr_rogers said:
Heh... Am I the only one who thinks that there may not be any friend that he's looking out for?;)
Actually, he kinda motivated me out of my afc phase a little and my personality is starting to resemble his...so yea...he was kind of looking out for me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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