"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this scenario possible?

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So i meet this girl,hit it off pretty well,we go clubbing dance etc goes sour on the kclose.I find out she's like obsessed like a fangirl over this other guy,i don't really care but her friends keep mentioning me this.She hooks up with this guy she wants (again info i don't ask for,they just pop and say "Gi did u know X is with Y now?").Due to mutual friends we meet up a couple of times,i keep it casual with some c+f.Fast forward half a month she brakes up with him,starts firing IOIs again,by know she's just an AW to me so i ignore her.

Couple weeks later she hooks up with one of my best friends,breaks it off the day we were gonna meet at a mutual friends party.She tries to dance with me and ****,i shrug it off once more.Two days later she's messing with yet another one of my best friends.

Anyone had a similar experience? Is this girl after me or what? I hate to see her emotionally ruin my AFC friends like that.Am i getting illusions from my arrogancy or is this just typical super attention ***** behaviour?

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She sounds like an attention wh0re, personally I wouldn't get invovled with a girl like that.
 
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Yeah i figured out that much -nor do i want to get involved with her- but the thing is she will **** up emotionally my mates and this will affect me cause they will whine day and night. :\
 
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