“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BxPrince24

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Ok, I'm about to start bulking. I'm between 200-215 lbs. I was told on a bodybuilding forum that I should bulk. check out the pics of my torso/arms.









I don't have access to a gym so should I save up for dumbells?

Are the workouts that don't require any equipment good enough to get the job done?

In the bulking thread, it says no cardio. At my current size, does that still apply?

What do I need to buy? Whey protein, vitamins, what else?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd start running asap, and strip that fat back.
 

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Originally posted by BxPrince24
Ok, I'm about to start bulking. I'm between 200-215 lbs. I was told on a bodybuilding forum that I should bulk. check out the pics of my torso/arms.


As a beginning lifter, the first piece of advice I have for you is to remove the phrases 'bulk' and 'cut' from your vocabulary.

It's PERFECTLY possible to lose fat and build muscle at the same time, despite popular opinion, so put yourself in some sort of sensible eating/cardio/lifting regime which allows you to cut back on fat and put on lean muscle at a reasonable pace, without periods of heavy dieting/gaining. Your body will thank you for it, and it's much easier to stick to a routine like this than do the old burgers/icecream/heavy cream bulk and egg whites/tuna/catabolism cut cycles.

I don't have access to a gym so should I save up for dumbells?

Are the workouts that don't require any equipment good enough to get the job done?
Yes, save up for a good set of weights. Dumbbells, barbells, a rack and an adjustable bench at the very least. Bodyweight exercises and cardio can get you ripped but don't expect to hold much muscle at all unless you're giving a body a reason to keep it (heavy lifting). And you won't keep getting bigger unless you keep lifting heavier weights - simply put.

In the bulking thread, it says no cardio. At my current size, does that still apply?
EVERYONE should do cardio, regardless of goals. It improves your appetite, cuts fat and improves cardiovascular health. Maybe a skinny ectomorph could get away with 1-2 sessions a week but I'd advise you to do daily cardio (low intensity on an empty stomach).

The 'no cardio while bulking' issue is another reason why the bulk will get you fat. It's just asking for trouble, and if anyone thinks light cardio will hinder your gains then they really need to think again.

What do I need to buy? Whey protein, vitamins, what else?
In this order:
Multivitamin (a good brand), EFAs (fish oil - take a high dose), whey protein, green tea extract (good for cutting fat, plus an excellent antioxidant) - these are the minimum, after that you can consider stuff like extra vitamin c, calcium (assuming you're avoiding dairy) and possibly creatine or taurine.
 

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Originally posted by BxPrince24
Ok, I'm about to start bulking. I'm between 200-215 lbs. I was told on a bodybuilding forum that I should bulk. check out the pics of my torso/arms.









I don't have access to a gym so should I save up for dumbells?

Are the workouts that don't require any equipment good enough to get the job done?

In the bulking thread, it says no cardio. At my current size, does that still apply?

What do I need to buy? Whey protein, vitamins, what else?
At your weight, I think I'd cut first then bulk. I'm not really an experienced body builder though.

You're profile says you're 18, so you may still be in high school. If you are, you're school should have a gym or weight room you can lift in during lunch or after school.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Is this right?

Originally posted by dirtyvibe
At your weight, I think I'd cut first then bulk. I'm not really an experienced body builder though.
Not necessary. Get bigger up and lose the fat gradually over time. Perfectly possible, no muscle-building time wasted, no egg-whites-and-tuna diets. Takes longer but is much more maintainable.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Is this right?

Not necessary to bulk or cut. Get bigger and lose the fat gradually over time. Perfectly possible, no muscle-building time wasted, no egg-whites-and-tuna diets. Takes longer but is much more maintainable.
 

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Re: Re: Is this right?

Originally posted by dirtyvibe
At your weight, I think I'd cut first then bulk. I'm not really an experienced body builder though.

You're profile says you're 18, so you may still be in high school. If you are, you're school should have a gym or weight room you can lift in during lunch or after school.
graduated already. I'm in an art college, no gym :(. I've decided that today will be my first day of my 8wks.

I'm going to be eating bananas, spinach, chicken, oatmeal, brown rice w/peas, along with slim fast shakes/protein bars. I haven't developed a chart as to what I will be eating and at what time yet.

Since I have no gym equipment, for the mean time I'm going to do push ups, sit ups, leg raises, full body crunches, squats, jogging, and toe touches. I'll split them up into a certain set every day or every other day of the week and do as many reps as I can.
 

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Well this is how today went so far.

Woke Up- Ate 2 bananas and half a bowl of spinach.

about 3 hours later - Ate a bowl of oatmeal.

about 3 hours later - Ate a slim fast protein bar, a chicken filet, and took a multivitamin.

about 3 hours later - Ate a bowl of orange chicken (homemade) with brown rice and peas.

about 1 hour later right after I finished jogging - Drank a slim fast protein shake.

I jogged for about 10-15 minutes. sprinted for about 5 minutes. While jogging I stopped 3 times and did 10 push ups each time.

I also drank about 3-4 bottles of water.

How does that look?
 

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dont do either, just lift, and eventually you will look traumer 5000

bulking def do not do if you got the info at bodybuilding.com, yeah :down: lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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