"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is this possible to intentially do?

ye yeah

Don Juan
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Hey there... i was wondering,is it possible to intentially make someone respect your opinion of them..

had a girl tell me yesterday,that she "dosent respect my opinion of her"

how would i or is it possible to intentially earn their respect of your opinion
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Umm...care to give a little more information there, bud.
 

Cod3r

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Oh god man, go jerk off and go to sleep... don't analyze the dumb things they say


-Cod3r
 

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"That's fine, you don't need to. However it is in your control to change my perception of you dork. *Smile*"
 

ye yeah

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it's pretty plain,i just want someone to respect my opinion of them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bussey

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Who cares what other people think of your opinion. Its not your choice what they think of your opinion, thats why its called 'YOUR OPINION". If it was there's, then they could choose what it was... but its not.

Man up bro. Take control of your own life. You make your decisions. Stick to them. No one else should influence "your opinion".
 
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