"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is this possible to intentially do?

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Hey there... i was wondering,is it possible to intentially make someone respect your opinion of them..

had a girl tell me yesterday,that she "dosent respect my opinion of her"

how would i or is it possible to intentially earn their respect of your opinion
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Umm...care to give a little more information there, bud.
 
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Oh god man, go jerk off and go to sleep... don't analyze the dumb things they say


-Cod3r
 
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"That's fine, you don't need to. However it is in your control to change my perception of you dork. *Smile*"
 
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it's pretty plain,i just want someone to respect my opinion of them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who cares what other people think of your opinion. Its not your choice what they think of your opinion, thats why its called 'YOUR OPINION". If it was there's, then they could choose what it was... but its not.

Man up bro. Take control of your own life. You make your decisions. Stick to them. No one else should influence "your opinion".
 
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