pretty good advice
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is this normal?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Thanks for the solid advice. That’s pretty much what I’ve been doing for the last 10 years. Focused on my career, building wealth, self-improvement, gym, etc.
You’re right about the importance of a social circle. I ended an LTR and moved to a rural area halfway across the US for a promotion. My social circle is pretty much non-existent right now, which is why I dabbled with OLD.
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Quick update: cougar invited me out on date #2 yesterday. She booked a nice hotel room and took me out for dinner after lots of sex. She wants to meet again soon.
I learned an important lesson here. When a woman has high IL and is more invested than you are, she won’t confuse you about her intentions.
I learned an important lesson here. When a woman has high IL and is more invested than you are, she won’t confuse you about her intentions.