pretty good advice
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Is this normal?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kitttydiet88
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Thanks for the solid advice. That’s pretty much what I’ve been doing for the last 10 years. Focused on my career, building wealth, self-improvement, gym, etc.
You’re right about the importance of a social circle. I ended an LTR and moved to a rural area halfway across the US for a promotion. My social circle is pretty much non-existent right now, which is why I dabbled with OLD.
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Quick update: cougar invited me out on date #2 yesterday. She booked a nice hotel room and took me out for dinner after lots of sex. She wants to meet again soon.
I learned an important lesson here. When a woman has high IL and is more invested than you are, she won’t confuse you about her intentions.
I learned an important lesson here. When a woman has high IL and is more invested than you are, she won’t confuse you about her intentions.