Is this normal?

[Lynx nkaf]

Let me solve your problem

1. Get off all OLD sites
2. Focus on your own success - gym, making money, career.
3. Expand your social circle and activities, and meet women there while not TRYING actively to meet women
4. Make meeting women low,low,low on your priority list.

Those who look hungry never get fed.

pretty good advice

 

[Kitttydiet88]

Let me solve your problem

1. Get off all OLD sites
2. Focus on your own success - gym, making money, career.
3. Expand your social circle and activities, and meet women there while not TRYING actively to meet women
4. Make meeting women low,low,low on your priority list.

Those who look hungry never get fed.

Thanks for the solid advice. That’s pretty much what I’ve been doing for the last 10 years. Focused on my career, building wealth, self-improvement, gym, etc.

You’re right about the importance of a social circle. I ended an LTR and moved to a rural area halfway across the US for a promotion. My social circle is pretty much non-existent right now, which is why I dabbled with OLD.

 

[Kitttydiet88]

Quick update: cougar invited me out on date #2 yesterday. She booked a nice hotel room and took me out for dinner after lots of sex. She wants to meet again soon.

I learned an important lesson here. When a woman has high IL and is more invested than you are, she won’t confuse you about her intentions.