"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is This Normal?

ProDJ26

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Haven't been here in awhile and my guess is for good reason to. Currently I'm in a LTR with HB7 and the current situation is that I cheated on my girl of almost 2yrs. Quite honestly I don't know how it happened other than the fact that I hit up on of my old plates. Next thing you know were goin at it like Jack rabbits!!! :crackup: Don't know whether to feel proud or disappointed. My girl has suspected that I've cheated on her before and I never have until last night. She's a great girl don't get me wrong but it feels like I'm gonna be missing out on all of the action from the ladies (just turned 26). I just wanna nail as many as possible :yes: but then I feel guilty for doing it. Is this normal?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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actually yeah it kinda is.

sometimes you can meet the right woman at the wrong time.

it's of my belief that you can't settle down until you have got all the ****ing out your system. rollo hits on this in his why did i get married blog peice. the only way i can not cheat on my wife now, is because i did more then enough ****ing in my single years. when i see a hot girl today now she reminds me of a girl i used to have sex with or i can remember the fun i had. i've cuddled on the couch watching a movie too many nights with a girl. i've creeped over a girl's house too many times.

if you feel like you are missing out you probably are.

but if you have never had that and you get girls looking at you and stuff like that you will wonder what's that's like.


I know 2 women in my past that if i met under different circumstances we could very well be together now. but we didnt' so we aren't.

a man should never feel like he is giving up something when he is in a LTR. the day i have the active urge to cheat on my wife.. i'm not talking about a really hot woman laying it on and me having to resist but me constantly thinking about ****ing other women i got to go. but i have had enough sex with enough women that are very good looking that don't see that happening. but it's something you have to do.

at 26 years old you really haven't even hit your prime yet.
 

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I did not get married until I was 50. What's the rush? :) I did not bother with women at all until I was 26, again, what's the rush? Where are they all going to disappear to? I was too busy getting my education, work experience, and ability with guns and karate, and didn't want any distractions or drains on my money. This strategy paid off in spades, guys. you want a gal, long term, who's 10-15 years younger than you are. Just ask Jack Lalanne. When you are horny at age 50, will you want a gal who is 50? :)
 

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I cheated in my last LTR with seven different women. I didn't feel as guilty as I thought I would.
I was kinda proud but I knew I wasn't going to marry her so I just thought fvck it. And these chicks threw themselves at me and a few even knew I had a GF. It was too easy and I caved in.
It was an ego boost but backbreaker is right (again), you should fvck as many women as possible before you settle down seriously.
Get it out of your system.
 

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don't said:
I did not get married until I was 50. What's the rush? :) I did not bother with women at all until I was 26, again, what's the rush? Where are they all going to disappear to? I was too busy getting my education, work experience, and ability with guns and karate, and didn't want any distractions or drains on my money. This strategy paid off in spades, guys. you want a gal, long term, who's 10-15 years younger than you are. Just ask Jack Lalanne. When you are horny at age 50, will you want a gal who is 50? :)
as my dad says there is no going out of business sale on pvssy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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