Haven't been here in awhile and my guess is for good reason to. Currently I'm in a LTR with HB7 and the current situation is that I cheated on my girl of almost 2yrs. Quite honestly I don't know how it happened other than the fact that I hit up on of my old plates. Next thing you know were goin at it like Jack rabbits!!! :crackup: Don't know whether to feel proud or disappointed. My girl has suspected that I've cheated on her before and I never have until last night. She's a great girl don't get me wrong but it feels like I'm gonna be missing out on all of the action from the ladies (just turned 26). I just wanna nail as many as possible :yes: but then I feel guilty for doing it. Is this normal?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is This Normal?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
actually yeah it kinda is.
sometimes you can meet the right woman at the wrong time.
it's of my belief that you can't settle down until you have got all the ****ing out your system. rollo hits on this in his why did i get married blog peice. the only way i can not cheat on my wife now, is because i did more then enough ****ing in my single years. when i see a hot girl today now she reminds me of a girl i used to have sex with or i can remember the fun i had. i've cuddled on the couch watching a movie too many nights with a girl. i've creeped over a girl's house too many times.
if you feel like you are missing out you probably are.
but if you have never had that and you get girls looking at you and stuff like that you will wonder what's that's like.
I know 2 women in my past that if i met under different circumstances we could very well be together now. but we didnt' so we aren't.
a man should never feel like he is giving up something when he is in a LTR. the day i have the active urge to cheat on my wife.. i'm not talking about a really hot woman laying it on and me having to resist but me constantly thinking about ****ing other women i got to go. but i have had enough sex with enough women that are very good looking that don't see that happening. but it's something you have to do.
at 26 years old you really haven't even hit your prime yet.
sometimes you can meet the right woman at the wrong time.
it's of my belief that you can't settle down until you have got all the ****ing out your system. rollo hits on this in his why did i get married blog peice. the only way i can not cheat on my wife now, is because i did more then enough ****ing in my single years. when i see a hot girl today now she reminds me of a girl i used to have sex with or i can remember the fun i had. i've cuddled on the couch watching a movie too many nights with a girl. i've creeped over a girl's house too many times.
if you feel like you are missing out you probably are.
but if you have never had that and you get girls looking at you and stuff like that you will wonder what's that's like.
I know 2 women in my past that if i met under different circumstances we could very well be together now. but we didnt' so we aren't.
a man should never feel like he is giving up something when he is in a LTR. the day i have the active urge to cheat on my wife.. i'm not talking about a really hot woman laying it on and me having to resist but me constantly thinking about ****ing other women i got to go. but i have had enough sex with enough women that are very good looking that don't see that happening. but it's something you have to do.
at 26 years old you really haven't even hit your prime yet.
I did not get married until I was 50. What's the rush? 
I did not bother with women at all until I was 26, again, what's the rush? Where are they all going to disappear to? I was too busy getting my education, work experience, and ability with guns and karate, and didn't want any distractions or drains on my money. This strategy paid off in spades, guys. you want a gal, long term, who's 10-15 years younger than you are. Just ask Jack Lalanne. When you are horny at age 50, will you want a gal who is 50?
I did not bother with women at all until I was 26, again, what's the rush? Where are they all going to disappear to? I was too busy getting my education, work experience, and ability with guns and karate, and didn't want any distractions or drains on my money. This strategy paid off in spades, guys. you want a gal, long term, who's 10-15 years younger than you are. Just ask Jack Lalanne. When you are horny at age 50, will you want a gal who is 50? 
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
I cheated in my last LTR with seven different women. I didn't feel as guilty as I thought I would.
I was kinda proud but I knew I wasn't going to marry her so I just thought fvck it. And these chicks threw themselves at me and a few even knew I had a GF. It was too easy and I caved in.
It was an ego boost but backbreaker is right (again), you should fvck as many women as possible before you settle down seriously.
Get it out of your system.
I was kinda proud but I knew I wasn't going to marry her so I just thought fvck it. And these chicks threw themselves at me and a few even knew I had a GF. It was too easy and I caved in.
It was an ego boost but backbreaker is right (again), you should fvck as many women as possible before you settle down seriously.
Get it out of your system.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
as my dad says there is no going out of business sale on pvssydon't said:I did not get married until I was 50. What's the rush?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.