"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this normal?

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I've read deangelo, mystery and all that stuff since like 2004. I've approached many girls, etc. etc. I have done a LOT to improve and I have improved a LOT, but still im not quite there yet! I still have problems (for example with kino) and stuff like that!!! I wonder, is it normal that this thing is taking me SO much long??? When i first knew about this books I've thought that in a year i would have a GF. But i still quite haven't got to that point yet, and it's been years now! I dont know what's going wrong????
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What you need are male buddies who are good with women. Use one of those DJ hook up services from this or other boards May I also suggest book of pook and dj boot camp from sosuave. I found those two especially book of pook done me more good than david d.

In the end my friend, it's all about being with women, watching your buddies do their magic, and trying it yourself.

Are you fat or skinny? You know you have to bulk up don't you? I know some people will tell you it doesn't matter, but I believe it plays a major role for the types of women you get. Get bulked up.
 
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By the way! for some reason when I invite girls to do something with ME, they are always like "well umm im not sure if i have time......" or stuff like that. If I got lucky enough, they would say sure! But im gonna invite some friends.... I almost never got dates with women.. It's always like a friend-thing
 
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Im not fat nor skinny! Im like.... normal! I play a lot of sports and that... so i'm kinda athletic, but not super muscular....
 
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The best way to get better at something is going out in the field and doing it. The more you do it the more comfortable it is. And you get a better sense of how to go about it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Everybody learns at their own pace.

But you have to ask yourself, are you really trying? Are you still getting scared? Are you freezing up? Not flowing and being natural? too much in your head? What exactly is holding you back? Once you identify the problem then you can take steps to correct it. So what is your major problem/fear?
 
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lokariototal said:
By the way! for some reason when I invite girls to do something with ME, they are always like "well umm im not sure if i have time......" or stuff like that. If I got lucky enough, they would say sure! But im gonna invite some friends.... I almost never got dates with women.. It's always like a friend-thing
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don't invite them! tell them where there gonna meet you and what time! make sure it's somethin fun to do on your own as well as with a chick and if the hoe don't show then it's her loss
 
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