"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've read deangelo, mystery and all that stuff since like 2004. I've approached many girls, etc. etc. I have done a LOT to improve and I have improved a LOT, but still im not quite there yet! I still have problems (for example with kino) and stuff like that!!! I wonder, is it normal that this thing is taking me SO much long??? When i first knew about this books I've thought that in a year i would have a GF. But i still quite haven't got to that point yet, and it's been years now! I dont know what's going wrong????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What you need are male buddies who are good with women. Use one of those DJ hook up services from this or other boards May I also suggest book of pook and dj boot camp from sosuave. I found those two especially book of pook done me more good than david d.

In the end my friend, it's all about being with women, watching your buddies do their magic, and trying it yourself.

Are you fat or skinny? You know you have to bulk up don't you? I know some people will tell you it doesn't matter, but I believe it plays a major role for the types of women you get. Get bulked up.
 
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By the way! for some reason when I invite girls to do something with ME, they are always like "well umm im not sure if i have time......" or stuff like that. If I got lucky enough, they would say sure! But im gonna invite some friends.... I almost never got dates with women.. It's always like a friend-thing
 
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Im not fat nor skinny! Im like.... normal! I play a lot of sports and that... so i'm kinda athletic, but not super muscular....
 
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The best way to get better at something is going out in the field and doing it. The more you do it the more comfortable it is. And you get a better sense of how to go about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everybody learns at their own pace.

But you have to ask yourself, are you really trying? Are you still getting scared? Are you freezing up? Not flowing and being natural? too much in your head? What exactly is holding you back? Once you identify the problem then you can take steps to correct it. So what is your major problem/fear?
 
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lokariototal said:
By the way! for some reason when I invite girls to do something with ME, they are always like "well umm im not sure if i have time......" or stuff like that. If I got lucky enough, they would say sure! But im gonna invite some friends.... I almost never got dates with women.. It's always like a friend-thing
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don't invite them! tell them where there gonna meet you and what time! make sure it's somethin fun to do on your own as well as with a chick and if the hoe don't show then it's her loss
 
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