"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is this normal?

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Yes. I assume you've read Marrying a BPD also. My story is on page one. Mine also sucked me in due to sexual fantasy fulfillment.

Heres an older one. This is super long, but worth the read:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134717

Edit: Demodulate, BPD does not mean Bipolar. I use to think that also. It means Borderline Personality Disorder. Trust me when I say, Bipolar women are a treat compared to BPD chicks. Please read these threads also:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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horaholic said:
Yes. I assume you've read Marrying a BPD also. My story is on page one. Mine also sucked me in due to sexual fantasy fulfillment.

Heres an older one. This is super long, but worth the read:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134717

Edit: Demodulate, BPD does not mean Bipolar. I use to think that also. It means Borderline Personality Disorder. Trust me when I say, Bipolar women are a treat compared to BPD chicks. Please read these threads also:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
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wow.. all this time I thought it meant Bi-Polar Disorder...

well mine was still nutso.. and had a lot of the same stuff people classify as BPD on here...
 
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Yes, being Bipolar is one of the SYMPTOMS of BPD. I went straight from a Bipolar to a BPD. I thought the Bipolar was nuts, but at least I could TELL she was nuts. She was HONEST about it. She'd be nice, then turn into a wolverine, and back. At least I KNEW what she was.

The BPD on the other hand, was such a MASTER manipulator, compulsive liar, and an oscar winning actress, that it was nearly impossible to tell that she was a total nutjob. Not only are they bipolar as well, but they are delusional about reality, which makes them much more dangerous. This is why someone on the other threads stated that BPD's are the only people who scare shrinks, and the shrinks themselves sometimes consult with each other after dealing with them, to make sure they were not manipulated themselves.

Dont get me wrong, Bipolars should be avoided too.
 
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