"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is this normal?

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Yes. I assume you've read Marrying a BPD also. My story is on page one. Mine also sucked me in due to sexual fantasy fulfillment.

Heres an older one. This is super long, but worth the read:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134717

Edit: Demodulate, BPD does not mean Bipolar. I use to think that also. It means Borderline Personality Disorder. Trust me when I say, Bipolar women are a treat compared to BPD chicks. Please read these threads also:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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horaholic said:
Yes. I assume you've read Marrying a BPD also. My story is on page one. Mine also sucked me in due to sexual fantasy fulfillment.

Heres an older one. This is super long, but worth the read:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134717

Edit: Demodulate, BPD does not mean Bipolar. I use to think that also. It means Borderline Personality Disorder. Trust me when I say, Bipolar women are a treat compared to BPD chicks. Please read these threads also:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155686
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wow.. all this time I thought it meant Bi-Polar Disorder...

well mine was still nutso.. and had a lot of the same stuff people classify as BPD on here...
 
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Yes, being Bipolar is one of the SYMPTOMS of BPD. I went straight from a Bipolar to a BPD. I thought the Bipolar was nuts, but at least I could TELL she was nuts. She was HONEST about it. She'd be nice, then turn into a wolverine, and back. At least I KNEW what she was.

The BPD on the other hand, was such a MASTER manipulator, compulsive liar, and an oscar winning actress, that it was nearly impossible to tell that she was a total nutjob. Not only are they bipolar as well, but they are delusional about reality, which makes them much more dangerous. This is why someone on the other threads stated that BPD's are the only people who scare shrinks, and the shrinks themselves sometimes consult with each other after dealing with them, to make sure they were not manipulated themselves.

Dont get me wrong, Bipolars should be avoided too.
 
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