"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this normal???

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ilikeburritos

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This all happened in a span of like 2 hours:

1) I made a profile at plentyoffish.com

2) A girl that lived 10 miles from me had her AIM name in her profile, so I sent her a message on instant messenger

3) We talked for 30 - 45 minutes (and honestly we don't have a whole lot in common, it seems)

4) I asked if she wants to get a coffee sometime

5) She told me when she's free, gave me her number, and wants me to call her tomorrow afternoon and we're planning on a coffee date

I've never gotten a number so easily, or so quickly. I'm 21. The girl is 22 and divorced, she has a 3-year-old kid who lives with her ex husband. The good part is this girl is FVCKIN CUUUTE. She's the best mix of hot and cute I've ever seen. The whole divorced/3-year-old kid thing makes me go "ehhh..." but hey like I said this girl is really cute/hot.

So, what do you think? First, does this kind of thing happen often? Secondly, is it worth going after a 22 year old girl with a kid who's been married and divorced already?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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newbie here myself, so keep that in mind. But id say go for it, as long as sex is all u want. Be careful u don't sucked into playing daddy to her kid however "cute", "lovely", "amazing" she might be.
 
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