is this normal for a girl?

[lamobatsman]

girl meets a guy through friends on a night out. 4 weeks later she asks him to her flat for the weekend.

she has only met him once with friends and he hasnt even taken her out on a date, yet the first time they meet just the two of them shes more than happy for him to come to hers and spend the weekend together.

is this normal?!! only known him 4 weeks or so of just chatting. surely the normal thing would be to go out on a date first if its the first time they meet just the two of them?

 

[Neon Owl]

All girls are different. This one obviously wants a good seeing to.

 

[Mike32ct]

Social circle can sometimes put a guy on the "fast track."

She feels safe around him because he's a friend of a friend. So she can act on her attraction without worrying about her safety while alone with him.

 

[lamobatsman]

then i guess i want to know why she didnt want me to come to hers first?!!
does a girl know when they gonna sleep with someone??

 

[betheman]

then i guess i want to know why she didnt want me to come to hers first?!!
does a girl know when they gonna sleep with someone??

yes or at least she definately knows when she wont!
in this case she has had time to reflect, gather data (networking goes on to the oblivion of the guys) you/he have passed the credibility test and are in for a weekend of sex.

as for wanting to know why not first...well she cant come over as a sl ut now can she! one has a reputation to maintain, doesnt want to appear to easy even though she is

 

[lamobatsman]

so is it fair to say she had no intention of sleeping with me??