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is this normal for a girl?

lamobatsman

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girl meets a guy through friends on a night out. 4 weeks later she asks him to her flat for the weekend.

she has only met him once with friends and he hasnt even taken her out on a date, yet the first time they meet just the two of them shes more than happy for him to come to hers and spend the weekend together.

is this normal?!! only known him 4 weeks or so of just chatting. surely the normal thing would be to go out on a date first if its the first time they meet just the two of them?
 

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All girls are different. This one obviously wants a good seeing to.
 

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then i guess i want to know why she didnt want me to come to hers first?!!
does a girl know when they gonna sleep with someone??
 

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lamobatsman said:
then i guess i want to know why she didnt want me to come to hers first?!!
does a girl know when they gonna sleep with someone??
yes or at least she definately knows when she wont!
in this case she has had time to reflect, gather data (networking goes on to the oblivion of the guys) you/he have passed the credibility test and are in for a weekend of sex.

as for wanting to know why not first...well she cant come over as a sl ut now can she! one has a reputation to maintain, doesnt want to appear to easy even though she is
 

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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

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