"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this normal? Can you guys shed some light on this for me?!

TheMonkeyKing

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@narcissist

It seems quite natural what you're describing man. Especially for one so young :up: You get a bit hardened to it after my long years!

But I still think about mine too, most of them. Some less than others, for obvious reasons. There's only one who I don't have particularly fond memories of, but I still think about her most days, but then I am one who thinks about most people I know most days.

You'll still think about her once you met someone else too. The secret is to not let it show, nor to even draw comparisons. Your NEXT will be even hotter, smarter and more entertaining than you ex anyway, so you might not even think about the ex much at all.

Six months ago, I thought I'd never get over my last gf. Now I have met at least one plate who seems in many (most) ways more appropriate, while having a couple more on the go.

Stick with it friend.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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