I dont know if I do a form of nlp naturally with chicks..... earlier in a convo I give a quote, phrase, or something memorable and then once getting into a intense conversation with our eyes being locked I make a heart felt and seemingly connecting comment that incorporates the quote or phrase I used earlier and they immediatly identify to what occured hours earlier....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
is this nlp??????
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