"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is this nlp??????

zen511

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I dont know if I do a form of nlp naturally with chicks..... earlier in a convo I give a quote, phrase, or something memorable and then once getting into a intense conversation with our eyes being locked I make a heart felt and seemingly connecting comment that incorporates the quote or phrase I used earlier and they immediatly identify to what occured hours earlier....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i guess anytime you put a person in a state of trance, you've used some variation of nlp.
 

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what occurred hours earlier?! how long are you talking with them for..

if you used the quote as an anchor, and then re-triggered it later.. that's nlp.
 
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