MatureDJ
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Is this just the essence of female behavior?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Serenity
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No, that's a fvcked up human being. If that was the rule and not the exception there would be no such thing as "society" at all.
logicallefty
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Call me a woman hater if you want.. But I bet you 51% or more of 30 something American women in 2018 wouldn't have to think twice about doing the same thing if in her exact shoes. Typical POS single mother. And at 51% it's now the norm or the rule, unfortunately.
Serenity
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I can't really know how many American women in their 30's has such bad morals, since I'm not even American. I can't take your made up statistic seriously though, you're literally making up numbers to fit your personal opinion.
With such a high percentage society would probably have collapsed into lawlessness long before today.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Society is a joke these days.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
R.U.G.
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That's pretty sh!tty. I have one pretty close from one of my employees. He came and asked for some advice (this was a a few years ago). His wife and him were trying to get pregnant and start a family. I know what he makes, since I pay him, so I thought they'd be fine. After a good amount of trying they went to an fertility doctor and both got tested. He's swimmers were fine. Her eggs, well, not too good. Even through IVF, he said the doctor said less than 10% chance. She started to distance her from him he claims and she broke down and said to him she really wanted to start a family with him because he was a good guy and she wanted some normalcy in life to start a family. Now, that she cannot start a family, she doesn't seem to feel the marriage is still necessary so she wanted a divorce. He tried talking to her, but no luck. She moved out and filed for divorce.
Ahh, modern women... What a breath of dirty crap.
Ahh, modern women... What a breath of dirty crap.
Serenity
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It will probably get better if nobody takes it seriously. /s
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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If only you knew hahahahaha!!
DEEZEDBRAH
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The solution is of course being a chuck, raising Chad's bastard children, and marrying cratered smv. 99% of men are doing just this. I blame really low testosterone.
Serenity
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So men are submissive by nature? The dominant male is an exception or abnormal?
Please enlighten me (with a credible source, not personal anecdotes).
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.