MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is this just the essence of female behavior?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Serenity
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No, that's a fvcked up human being. If that was the rule and not the exception there would be no such thing as "society" at all.
logicallefty
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Call me a woman hater if you want.. But I bet you 51% or more of 30 something American women in 2018 wouldn't have to think twice about doing the same thing if in her exact shoes. Typical POS single mother. And at 51% it's now the norm or the rule, unfortunately.
Serenity
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I can't really know how many American women in their 30's has such bad morals, since I'm not even American. I can't take your made up statistic seriously though, you're literally making up numbers to fit your personal opinion.
With such a high percentage society would probably have collapsed into lawlessness long before today.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Society is a joke these days.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
R.U.G.
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That's pretty sh!tty. I have one pretty close from one of my employees. He came and asked for some advice (this was a a few years ago). His wife and him were trying to get pregnant and start a family. I know what he makes, since I pay him, so I thought they'd be fine. After a good amount of trying they went to an fertility doctor and both got tested. He's swimmers were fine. Her eggs, well, not too good. Even through IVF, he said the doctor said less than 10% chance. She started to distance her from him he claims and she broke down and said to him she really wanted to start a family with him because he was a good guy and she wanted some normalcy in life to start a family. Now, that she cannot start a family, she doesn't seem to feel the marriage is still necessary so she wanted a divorce. He tried talking to her, but no luck. She moved out and filed for divorce.
Ahh, modern women... What a breath of dirty crap.
Ahh, modern women... What a breath of dirty crap.
Serenity
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It will probably get better if nobody takes it seriously. /s
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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If only you knew hahahahaha!!
DEEZEDBRAH
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The solution is of course being a chuck, raising Chad's bastard children, and marrying cratered smv. 99% of men are doing just this. I blame really low testosterone.
Serenity
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So men are submissive by nature? The dominant male is an exception or abnormal?
Please enlighten me (with a credible source, not personal anecdotes).
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.