"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is This Just Me?

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Allright I want everyones opinion.

I can get myself into the absolute greatest situiations with a girl but then I decide I like her and boom, the shyness bug hits. Its like wtf, I can do c&f, being above her and whatever the fvck else and she becomes attracted and then I decide I like her and then transform into a shy afc so its impossible to make any moves.

Yes this is afc but its gotta just be a phase. is it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey there. there is a reason why you are falling back into afc and shy behaviour when you decide you like the girl... it is because you start to think that she is important to you, in a way putting her on the pedestal, and hence start to feel that you can't do all the c&f and things that made her attracted to you in the first place. well guess what, this is because you are afraid of losing her. in order to get the girl, you must first be willing to lose her. hope this helped
 
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best advice ive read about it: go into to it to learn. hell man if you screw up with a girl, but you learn somthing not only are you better for it, but it also breeds the 'theres plenty of fish in the sea' mentality. it doesnt matter that you effed up big time with that one girl... your just trying to learn.
I think the article is somewhere on this site but idk.
 
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